I posted something short earlier this week on my Facebook page about this article “For the Women Who Hold Too Much.”
I think most of us can relate to feeling that sense of overwhelm when - or if - we stop to pause and explore all the feelings.
“…About lugging the weight of our worlds until our backs are bent until we can’t even see our own palms, our own wants, and needs?”
We, middle-aged females, tend to hold so much for others - literally, metaphorically, energetically. It's hard to set things down or dare I say, not even pick them up?
Often it’s because our roles demand that we pick up things - like our toddler’s toys or the dinner dishes. Or all the household tasks for our aging parents. Or that boss that leaves us and an endless stream of jobs.
Or because picking up and holding other people’s emotional baggage or physical work is a pattern we’ve fallen into.
Or because we do it unconsciously because we like to be in control or we see work that needs to be done.
Whatever the reason, many of us carry things and don’t even realize the weight of what we carry. Then recognizing the circumstances surrounding us and the feelings inhabiting us becomes even more elusive.Read More